I'm pretty sure that's the saying.
But before we get to that, let people know if there are folks who need more attention/aren't getting the love you think they deserve!
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This isn't related, but I guess it could be - which is that it's not always an easy thing to do. But if you need help - please reach out to someone and ask for it.
Maybe they can't help you, but maybe they can/know someone who can. You never know, but the important thing is to keep trying.
Please keep trying.
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